Prabhupada's Views on Women
by Urmila devi dasi
Reposted November 29, 2002
Please accept my obeisances. All glories to Srila Prabhupada!
Over the past months, several devotees-some of a very high devotional
caliber-have directly or indirectly stated that Prabhupada's comments and
instructions about women were erroneous, irrelevant to our spiritual life,
or out-of-date, etc.
It is certainly true that all of varnasrama, which includes the position of
women in society, is external to our spiritual life and is not important in
the sense that chanting Hare Krishna, worshipping the Deity, preaching,
hearing Bhagavatam, and so forth, are important. It is also true that
spiritual life isn't dependent on any material situation.
However, some material situations are more favorable to spiritual life than
are others. In particular, a stable society with functional families, are
helpful to, as Prabhupada said, "make the mind peaceful" for spiritual life.
If both men and women play their respective roles in this world, then the
truly important things, such as always remembering Krishna and serving Him
favorably, become so much easier.
If we throw out the "external," instructions that Prabhupada gave us
regarding society-especially instructions that he repeated very often in his
purports, lectures, letters, and conversations-we risk making our
advancement so much more slow and difficult. And we risk developing the
mentality that we can disregard anything Prabhupada said that we can't
immediately understand or apply. The fact that we may not feel able to apply
something doesn't mean that we should "resent the principle," but rather we
should go on trying "without consideration of defeat or hopelessness. "
(gita 3. 31 purport)
Prabhupada was preaching only 20-30 years ago. Society hasn't changed all
that much. And certainly, hormones haven't changed since the creation, what
to speak of in the last 20 years. The different psychology of men and women
haven't changed since the creation. The psychological needs of men, women,
and children remain as they were. If we truly believe, even theoretically,
that we "are not this body," then why do we care whether our bodily duties
are "higher" or "lower" than someone else's? Such things are temporary,
external, and don't touch the real self. If doing a "lower" duty will please
Krishna and Prabhupada and help us fix our minds on the glorious holy name,
why for the sake of pride will we reject it?
Urmila devi dasi is a disciple of Srila Prabhupada and frequent contributor
to Back to Godhead Magazine.
In any case, most difficulties with understanding the position of women can
be solved if we understand that all of us have two duties-material and
spiritual. The spiritual duties, the nine processes of devotional service,
are equally available to every human being regardless of age, gender, race,
intelligence, health, etc. etc. There should be full equality of doing these
nine processes in our movement. The duties according to the body and mind,
which should be dovetailed in the Lord's service, will, indeed, vary
according to age, gender, inclination, intelligence, talent, cultural
situation, and so forth. If we deny these before the stage of liberation, we
will do them anyway, but in a way that will cause our bondage. (BG, chapters
3 and 18)
Also, in terms of the external duties, women have varna. When comparing men
and women, one must only compare a brahmana man to a brahmana woman. For
example, a brahmana woman is certainly superior to a sudra man in terms of
intelligence, freedom from lust, etc. I've written a lengthy article on this
subject, with full scriptural references, if one wants more details.
The "less intelligence" of women doesn't refer to IQ or talent, but the
facts that women are more inclined to mundane enjoyment and are more under
the control of passion and ignorance. Our logical abilities are more prone
to be over-ridden by our emotions and sentimentality.
If we wish to discuss areas in which Prabhupada was mistaken about women, we
could bring up where he quoted some scientist as saying that women have 32
ounces less brain substance than men. The actual statistics are that women
have 4 ounces less brain substance than men; when adjusted for body size, we
have 1 ounce less. (One has to compare within race as certain races have
larger brains). In any case, there is ample statistical evidence that men
excel women in certain types of thinking; women excel in others.
Each type of body has its material and spiritual advantages and
disadvantages. While it would be scripturally correct to say that males have
an overall advantage for spiritual advancement, women have some advantages,
too, such as being softhearted and inclined to follow authority. We could
also say that overall, human have more advantages than demigods to become
Krishna consciousness. But demigods have some advantages that humans lack,
and many demigods become pure devotees.
Why not just accept the body we have for this life, and work with it so as
to please Krishna and make our life peaceful, so that we can concentrate our
time and energy on what's truly important-loving and remembering Krishna.
Your servant, Urmila devi dasi