Memories of Sridhar Swami
Posted April 9, 2004
(Based on talks in Laguna Beach and Los Angeles 14th and 15th March 2004)
HH Giriraja Swami:
We have gathered on a most auspicious day. Srivasa Thakura is one of the members of the Panca-tattva. He lived in Navadvipa-dhama in Mayapur, near the residence of Jagannatha Misra and Saci-devi, where Sri Caitanya Mahaprabhu appeared. Later, when Lord Caitanya began the sankirtana movement in Navadvipa-dhama, He and His other most confidential associates would meet at the home of Srivasa Thakura, Srivasangana, and have kirtana throughout the night. The kirtanas at Srivasangana were most ecstatic, and only the most intimate devotees of Sri Caitanya Mahaprabhu were allowed to enter. In fact, the nocturnal kirtanas at Srivasangana in Gaura-lila are compared to the rasa dance in Krsna-lila.
In his identity in Krsna-lila, Srivasa Pandita was Narada Muni, the great preacher who travels throughout the universe chanting the holy names of Krsna and enlightening the fallen souls in Krsna consciousness. So it is most auspicious that His Holiness Sridhar Swami Maharaja left on Srivasa Thakura's appearance day--that most auspicious day--in Sri Mayapur-dhama--that most auspicious place.
We now have a special opportunity and responsibility to honor and glorify His Holiness Sridhar Swami Maharaja.
My own association with His Holiness Sridhar Swami goes back to Bombay, over thirty years ago. Srila Prabhupada had requested disciples from America to come to India to help him there, and in particular with his three main projects--Bombay, Mayapur, and Vrndavana. From 1972, His Holiness Sridhar Swami Maharaja served Srila Prabhupada in India, mainly in Bombay.
When we got permission from the municipality to build on Hare Krishna Land in Juhu, Bombay, Srila Prabhupada wanted Sridhar Maharaja to take charge of the construction materials. Sridhar Maharaja had a hefty build, like a football player, so Srila Prabhupada thought he would be appropriate to keep track of the construction material and make sure none of it was stolen. But Sridhar Maharaja (he wasn't a sannyasi then, so Sridhar das Brahmachary) said he didn't want to look after the construction material; he wanted to preach. I was the temple president in Bombay, so I was going back and forth between Srila Prabhupada and Sridhar Maharaja. Srila Prabhupada again said he should look after the construction materials, so I went back to deliver the message to him, but Sridhar Maharaja insisted, "I want to preach!"
Maharaja had never really preached much in India before then, and we didn't know how well he could preach to the aristocratic Indian gentlemen we were mainly approaching at that time. But he was so sincere in his desire to preach that he became one of the best preachers in India, and one of the best preachers in the world. I have told this story to illustrate Maharaja's sincere desire to preach, and his strong determination to serve Srila Prabhupada and the mission even in ways that may not have been easy for him.
In India, Srila Prabhupada had introduced the life membership program. And he actually based the society's progress there on the membership program. He said that making someone a life member was almost as good as making them into a devotee. He also said that he introduced the life membership program as a way to distribute his books, because if someone became a life member by paying a certain subscription, they would get a set of Srila Prabhupada's books and a subscription to Back to Godhead magazine.
Eventually, Sridhar Swami led one of the life membership teams in Bombay. I was the membership director, and the other leaders of teams were Sridhar Swami, Lokanath Swami, Jagat Purusa Prabhu (who happened to phone me today) and Haridas Prabhu (who since then has become a producer of Krsna conscious television programs). Those were our main teams. In the early 1980s, Sridhar Maharaja became the Juhu temple president, and so he increasingly joined me in cultivating the most important people in Bombay. And between 1984 and 1990, when I was unable to return to India because of visa problems, Sridhar Maharaja deepened his relationship with many of our most important members, and they really came to love him deeply.
Later, about 1991, Sridhar Maharaja began the fund-raising-by-mail program in Juhu. Many devotees criticized the proposed program, saying it would never work. To prepare the letters and post them would cost more than two lakhs rupees (Rs 2,00,000/-), and where was the guarantee that we would ever get the money back? Yet in spite of all the negativity, Maharaja took the risk. (Srila Prabhupada had said, "To preach means to take risks.") So Sridhar Maharaja took the risk, and the experiment proved to be successful. The first effort itself made money, and subsequent mailings proved even more profitable. Soon, Maharaja received invitations from centers in India and abroad to help them organize fund-raising-by-mail campaigns, and the campaigns proved to be successful everywhere. They became one of the most reliable sources of income many temples had. Even today, the BHISMA office started by Sridhar Maharaja raises funds for the Juhu temple by mail.
More recently, Sridhar Maharaja started the VAST program (Vedic Applied Spiritual Technology). This pioneering program uses the latest multi-media methods to teach the corporate sector stress management and time management--all in relation to Krsna consciousness. Maharaja always tried to find innovative ways to present Krsna consciousness. He studied experts in various fields and applied what he learned to Krsna consciousness.
Many of my most vivid memories of Maharaja, and of his good influence on me and on others, are from the last few years. You may know that in 1977, some months before he left this world, Srila Prabhupada named eleven disciples to initiate devotees on his behalf while he was still here. Then, after he left, the same disciples continued to initiate. Later, slowly, a few more were given that responsibility, beginning with three others. Sridhar Maharaja was not one of the first to initiate, or even one of the early ones to be added later. The attitude of the movement then was quite restrictive. So at one stage, he joked that he wanted only three disciples--one to cook, one to do his laundry, and one to collect for him.
Eventually, Sridhar Maharaja was given the responsibility to initiate disciples, and he took his duty very seriously. He was very sincere. Maharaja initiated one of his earliest disciples, a devotee from Croatia, in his first initiation ceremony at Juhu. Maharaja named him "Mayapur das" and instructed him to be a servant of Mayapur. Even up to the end, Maharaja was very sincere in his duties to his disciples and in his care and affection for them. He really cared for them, and he loved them very much. At the same time, he cared for devotees and people in general, and I think this is one of his most remarkable traits: his almost universal care for others. He really was like an ocean of love.
In Kartika of 1999, Sridhar Maharaja and I met in Vrndavana. One morning we went to the Bhaktivedanta Ashram at Govardhana, where I was to meet His Holiness Indradyumna Swami and choose a Govardhana-sila to worship. Indradyumna Maharaja placed two silas next to each other on his shelf and asked, "Who do these look like?" They looked like Radha and Krsna, and so I accepted them. Then Indradyumna Swami gave me his deity of Gopesvara Mahadeva, and he gave Sridhar Maharaja silas of Lord Nrsimhadeva and Varahadeva. Earlier, Indradyumna Swami had told Sridhar Maharaja, "I will have something for you when you come to Govardhana." Sridhar Swami was a great devotee of Lord Nrsimhadeva.
The next day, Indradyumna Swami took Sridhar Maharaja and me to Loi Bazar in downtown Vrndavana to get paraphernalia for our worship. We spent most of the day in various shops, looking for just the right items for the Deities' service, and bargaining with the merchants. Finally, we became satisfied that we had done the best we could for our worshipable Lords--and beside, we all were hungry--and so we returned to the Krsna-Balarama Mandir.
During the same stay in Vrndavana, Sridhar Maharaja and I did Govardhana-parikrama together, followed by a group of devotees. We had wonderful krsna-katha all around Govardhana Hill. Although we both were ill, we did the full parikrama barefoot in the hot sun, and only afterward did we take prasada at the Bhaktivedanta Ashram.
Within a month, we both were in the hospital--he in a coma, with encephalopathy from hepatitis C, and me on the verge of a heart attack, about to have cardiac bypass surgery.
Later, Maharaja praised the power of that parikrama--that it put us both in the hospital so quickly. He told me, "The only reason I went all the way around was to keep up with you." I replied, "But, Maharaja, the only reason I went all the way around was to keep up with you!" Such was our relationship, and such is the mercy of Giri-Govardhana.
Anyway, two years earlier, Sridhar Maharaja had been diagnosed with hepatitis C and cirrhosis of the liver, a severe condition that, in the course of time, proves to be fatal.
After Kartika, Maharaja's condition deteriorated, and some liquid, called ascites, accumulated in his abdominal cavity. He had nearly twenty or twenty-five liters of fluid, which caused massive swelling in his legs as well.
So he returned to Bombay for tests and treatment. In Bombay, Maharaja was admitted in the Bhaktivedanta Hospital at Mira Road, which is run and staffed mainly by devotees. There, Maharaja had a further reversal; he went into a coma. Soon, His Holiness Tamal Krishna Goswami and some of Goswami Maharaja's close friends--Giridhari Swami and Kesava Bharati Maharaja--came from Vrndavana to Bombay to meet Sridhar Maharaja in the hospital. Maharaja was so grateful to them for coming all the way from Vrndavana to be with him, and their visit had a very deep effect on him. From then on, one of the main themes in his life was how much he appreciated his Godbrothers, how much he wanted their association. He would say, "My Godbrothers are my life," and he felt, as a humble Vaisnava, dependent on them.
Even at the end, when he was in Canada, just before he left for Mayapur, he was asking different Godbrothers, "Please help me. Help me to chant the holy name." He was very, very humble.
Eventually, Sridhar Maharaja was discharged from the hospital, but his condition remained delicate. Many devotees suggested that he return to Vrndavana and spend his last days there, hearing and chanting about Krsna. Again, he was so sincere that he accepted the advice of his Godbrothers and well-wishers. But soon he felt, "This is not me, just to sit and chant and hear in Vrndavana." Again he came to the same point: "I want to preach." So, Maharaja stayed in Haridas Prabhu's vacant flat at Mira Road, and he would meet devotees and friends--and preach.
In April of 2000, Maharaja was again admitted into the Bhaktivedanta Hospital in an early stage of hepatic coma. Later, he had difficulty breathing and actually felt he might leave his body then. But he recovered from the crisis, and soon he got the idea that he would like to travel again. And he was adamant.
To travel then, from the medical point of view, was a doubtful decision, but Maharaja was determined. His first stop was to be Santa Barbara, where I have a small ashram. He wanted to visit, to spend some time with me and to rest and recuperate. Thus, in May of 2000, he and his very faithful and wonderful servant, Mayapur das, somehow got on a plane and reached Los Angeles. From the Los Angeles airport they came straight by car to Santa Barbara, but by the time he reached the ashram, he was in a terrible condition. We were shocked. Already he was already terribly sick, but he had caught the flu in Bombay before he left--although the symptoms didn't manifest until he reached Hong Kong. Some devotees said that he shouldn't have traveled at all, that he was too sick to travel, and that the disease was affecting his discrimination. But in retrospect, I see it as his love and his desire to serve and preach. In fact, sometimes I think that he risked his life just to come and visit me.
So he came, and we spent some time together. He was on a very strict diet that he didn't much like, and he would cheat a little now and then. One night I went out to a preaching program. Although he wasn't well enough to come, he encouraged me to go. So we left him in the care of Mayapur das and one lady devotee named Kunti, who could cook in case he needed anything. After I left, he decided that he wanted to indulge himself a little; he asked for veggie burgers and French fries, which were not at all on his diet. Kunti dutifully prepared the veggie burgers and chips, and Mayapur reluctantly served them.
Maharaja ate them, and he was in very jolly spirits.
In Bombay we had two highly aristocratic life members, very affluent yet very devoted--Mr. Brijratan Mohatta and Mr. M. P. Maheshwari. Every Sunday, they and their wives would come to Juhu. Out of their deep affection for Maharaja, these two gentlemen began to call him "the jolly swami" because, well, he was always so jolly. The name stuck, and a few years ago, Maharaja's brother Stuart actually wrote an article about him called The Jolly Swami. It was a nice article and was published in a magazine in Canada. Recently, this nickname became even more popular--and deservedly so--because Maharaja remained so jolly, even up to the time of death.
So, happily enjoying Kuntidevi's tasty burgers and chips, "the jolly swami" was in a very jolly mood indeed. The next morning, however, he wasn't quite so jolly--or he didn't manifest his mood. In fact, he wouldn't get up. We thought, "He must be exhausted." Time passed, and still he wouldn't get up. We waited, tried again, waited, and tried again. Finally, we realized he was in a coma, so we rushed him to the hospital, to the emergency room. He was eventually put in the intensive care unit. (Later, Maharaja would phone and say, "I want to come to Santa Barbara and have some more of Kunti's `coma burgers.'")
Physiologically, there was a certain course to be run, and the doctors were confident that he would come out of the coma. It just had to be treated in the proper way and the condition would reverse itself.
Again, in the hospital, Sridhar Maharaja's great affection and care came out. Because of the liver's malfunction, it wasn't able to take out the toxins--that was the basic problem. And eventually the toxins go to the brain and cause encephalopathy. If the toxins in the brain reach a certain point, the patient goes into a coma. Then the process of coming out of the coma and toxic influence is gradual. In a way, you could say that at first Maharaja was sort of delirious. But the beauty of his delirium was that his goodness came out freely: He just wanted everyone to chant. He wanted everyone to become Krsna conscious--the doctors, the nurses, the nurses' assistants, the room cleaners. He really just wanted everyone to become Krsna conscious.
And then, too, he would think of his brothers in Canada. He really wanted them, Malcolm and Stuart, to become devotees. He would talk to us about them, not completely coherently, but with great love and care. And he would talk with them, as well as with his mother and sister (who were also in Canada), on the phone. He saw some spark in them that he wanted to fan. He really wanted them to become devotees.
When the crisis began, we informed his family. His sister Fiona was just wonderful--so helpful and responsible. And eventually his brother Malcolm came down to Santa Barbara and stayed with Maharaja and us for a while. Also, Hridayananda Maharaja visited Maharaja in the hospital. And again, Sridhar Maharaja was so appreciative. The two of them joked a lot, and soon Sridhar Maharaja was discharged and came back to our ashram. Despite his trying medical condition, he really was "the jolly swami," so friendly to the nurses and staff and everyone.
(After some days, the bill from the hospital came--for almost $30,000. Maharaja studied it carefully. Finally, he concluded: "I want my money. Tell them they can take back my consciousness!")
From then on, despite his hepatitis, he would travel a lot, sort of like Prabhupada--more or less six months in India, based in Bombay, and six months traveling. He would visit London and Croatia and Slovenia, and he would always attend the New York Ratha-yatra. He made a point always to go to the New York Ratha-yatra. And he would regularly visit Alachua, Los Angeles, Vancouver, and even Brazil. He had many disciples in Croatia and Slovenia. Many of the young people there became initiated by him.
In September of 2001, His Holiness Sridhar Swami, accompanied by Nrsimhananda Prabhu of ITV, came specially to Carpinteria for our Vyasa-puja. There he said: "For me, in my stage of life, if I have learned even one little lesson, it is dasa-dasanudasah. Cultivate service to the Vaisnavas and you will get everything. We need a family in which we can love and trust each other and not fear. We have to preach to so many materialistic people. Their very aura is permeated with lust and greed and anger, and there is a possibility of getting infected. But if we can come to a community of friends, of brothers and sisters, where we love each other, care . . . I am not talking of superficially saying something, but where we really care deep down inside that this person is suffering and care, even materially. Prabhupada cried when he saw people suffering materially in the material world. So, what to speak of exalted Vaisnava devotees: we should care for them and love them. This is our family."
January 14th, 2003, marked the twenty-fifth anniversary of the grand opening of the Juhu temple, and Sridhar Maharaja took the lead in arranging the silver jubilee celebrations. He wanted every devotee who had ever served in Juhu, especially in the time leading up to the grand opening--which was basically when Srila Prabhupada was personally present--he wanted every one of them to come. The Juhu temple had a modest budget to help devotees with their airfares, but eventually another very nice devotee in Bombay, Krsnacandra Prabhu (Hrishikesh Mafatlal), gave several lakhs of rupees to pay for devotees' tickets. Any Prabhupada disciple who had served in Bombay, Sridhar Swami tracked down. He phoned and personally requested him or her to come and then offered free tickets as required.
So many came, and the reports of that event were extraordinary. People couldn't believe it. Everyone there felt that Srila Prabhupada had manifested himself again. Even His Holiness Sacinandana Swami, who hadn't served in Bombay earlier but happened to be there for the celebrations, said that he felt Srila Prabhupada's presence descend in a very tangible way. And everyone gave the credit to Sridhar Swami. He deserved the credit because he got so many devotees to come, and he made wonderful arrangements for them--with help, of course, from devotees from Chowpatty and Juhu. And when it was time for the devotees to give their remembrances of the early days of serving Srila Prabhupada in Bombay, he wouldn't allow the gurus and sannyasis to speak. He said, "We hear them all the time; we want to hear others." Of course, that they also spoke, too, but mainly he wanted to give others the chance to speak. He really was pandita sama-darsinah: he really saw everyone equally. He truly saw the soul, and he appreciated everyone. He appreciated everyone's good, and he wanted to encourage everyone.
Anyway, it was a wonderful event. Once, I phoned, just to be part of the celebrations, and the receptionist in the guesthouse in Juhu picked up the phone. I asked for Maharaja, but he didn't happen to be right there, and it was going to take time to find him. They were going to look for him. In the meantime I asked, "Who else is there?" Just then, Jagat Purusa Prabhu was walking by. I said, "Okay, I'll speak to him." Jagat Purusa was in high ecstasy. He wasn't speaking; the ecstasy within him was moving him to speak. And he said that he had not experienced such bliss in Krsna consciousness since the time he was actually in Bombay serving Srila Prabhupada. He was just went on and on, emphasizing that it was the most memorable occasion of his life, and I think everyone pretty much felt the same way, because they felt Srila Prabhupada's presence. What more do any of us want? For us, the highest perfection is to be with Srila Prabhupada, and Sridhar Swami, I feel, was instrumental in creating that situation in which Srila Prabhupada was pleased to manifest himself in such a vivid and personal way.
After a few days of recuperating from that major effort, Maharaja wanted to travel again, so he came to Los Angeles. That time his schedule didn't allow him to come to Santa Barbara. Also, I think he was a little upset because I hadn't come for the celebrations in Juhu, so he didn't want to come to me. I went to him, and he was wonderful--as usual. After Los Angeles he went to Vancouver. While he was there, I began to consider that I had offended him because I didn't go for the celebrations in Juhu. I don't think I could have gone, but at the same time I was concerned that I had offended him. So I phoned him in Vancouver to apologize and explain why I couldn't come, even though he had so much wanted me to come (and so many others also had wanted me to come).
I asked him to forgive me. He was very gracious. He was sorry I hadn't come, and he did want to understand why I hadn't. But he said I didn't commit any offense or anything.
So, we would frequently talk on the phone, and we would meet whenever he came to Los Angeles. Then, last November, he phoned from Bomaby and told me he was planning to go to Vancouver in April and spend four to six months there. (That would have been starting next month.) I replied, "I will definitely come and spend time with you there." Soon thereafter, however, I got an e-mail from him saying that he had been diagnosed in Bombay with liver cancer, and that he was going to Vancouver immediately to see if he could get a liver transplant, which was his "only hope."
He flew to Vancouver. The first day he went for tests, they found three places where cancer had affected his liver, which prima facie made him eligible for the transplant. But they still had to do more tests. When they did the next tests, however, they found more cancer--and because the cancer had spread beyond the limit allowed for transplants, his "only hope" was dashed. He was ineligible for the transplant because the cancer had spread so much. So it seemed like he was soon to leave his body.
I was very distressed. I phoned him, but he wasn't answering on his landline. I then got him on his cell phone. I asked, "Where are you?" He answered, "I'm shopping." He seemed so jolly--like always. But then he confirmed my worst fears: "The doctor says that I could go at any time. Phone me back later. We have to talk."
After that, we would speak every day, usually twice a day. And we had wonderful talks. The question arose whether he should go to Mayapur--and when. He decided he would go to Mayapur, and eventually, in consultation with his Godbrothers, he concluded he should go as soon as possible.
He had three desires, as he told me: "I just want to survive until I reach Mayapur. Then, if possible, I want to live to see the Panca-tattva installed. And then, if possible, I want to live until Gaura-Purnima. And then--whatever." (He meant, of course, "And then--whatever Krsna wants.")
With these three desires in his heart, although no one knew how much travel his weakened body could bear, Sridhar Maharaja flew to London. There, Indradyumna Swami joined him. (Maharaja's sister, Fiona, had informed Indradyumna Swami of the doctor's pronouncement: If Sridhar undertook the journey, he probably wouldn't make it. And she added, "If that happens, I want someone to be there with him.") So Indradyumna Swami flew to England to accompany Maharaja onward towards Mayapur, and he was very apprehensive.
In London, devotees had rented a room for Maharaja in a hotel near the airport. He was so sick and weak that he could hardly walk. The devotees just had to get him from the airport to the nearest place possible--as soon as possible.
Because the news had spread that Maharaja was going to Mayapur to leave his body, many of his disciples from Europe--mainly from Croatia and Slovenia--came to London to meet him. They were crying because they knew they would never see him again. He told them, "You can cry when I go. You can cry for a few days, but then you have to get back into your service, and then you have to be happy." I was used to phoning, so I called Maharaja at the hotel and spoke a little with Indradyumna Swami there too.
Sridhar Maharaja wanted to reciprocate with the disciples who had come to be with him. He said, "The king is good for the people, and the people are good for the king. I never had my own family, but when I had disciples, I was able to benefit tremendously. I felt emotions I thought I never would. I just don't think it will stop. When we love one another, we are together. Of course, when I leave, we can't play football [soccer] together. But I can come along in the form of a picture." It was so bittersweet. Maharaja was so sweet and so humorous. Yet his disciples were feeling, "We will never see Guru Maharaja again. We're going to take his picture with us when we play football?"
Then he told his disciples, "When I leave, we can be together in more significant ways." He said that love in separation is actually stronger. And we do experience that when we are with people we love, we may take them for granted. But when they are gone, we realize how valuable their association was and how much we love them. And the feelings become more intense than when we were with them.
There were some disciples who didn't have second initiation, so Maharaja decided he would initiate them. But because of his disease, his brain didn't always function properly. Toxins went to his brain, and then, too, he had to take a derivative of opium to kill the pain, as prescribed by the doctor. Anyway, he decided, "Okay, I'll give second initiation--but all together, all five at once." He began reciting the gayatri mantra for them, "Om bhur . . ."--but then he couldn't remember the next word. He asked Indradyumna Swami, "What comes next?" Indradyumna Swami pronounced the word, and Maharaja repeated it to his disciples. When Maharaja couldn't remember the next word either, he told Indradyumna Swami, "Look, why don't you just say each word, and then I'll repeat it, and the disciples will hear it from me." So they got through the first two lines. Then Indradyumna Swami, who himself was exhausted from his long flight from South Africa, couldn't remember the next word. So Sridhar Maharaja asked, "Are there any brahmanas in the house who know the next word?"
Then one brahmana told the word to Indradyumna Swami, Indradyumna Swami repeated it to Sridhar Swami, and Sridhar Swami repeated it to the disciples.
Sridhar Maharaja remarked, "Harer nama harer nama harer namaiva kevalam. We don't need this gayatri mantra. Hari-nama is enough." Then he started quoting:
harer nama harer nama
harer namaiva kevalam
kalau nasty eva nasty eva
nasty eva gatir anyatha
["In this age of quarrel and hypocrisy the only means of deliverance is the chanting of the holy names of the Lord. There is no other way. There is no other way. There is no other way." (Cc. Adi 17.21)]
yajanti hi su-medhasah
["In the Age of Kali, intelligent persons perform congregational chanting to worship the incarnation of Godhead who constantly sings the name of Krsna. Although His complexion is not blackish, He is Krsna Himself. He is accompanied by His associates, servants, weapons and confidential companions." (SB 11.5.32)]
kaler dosa-nidhe rajan
asti hy eko mahan gunah
kirtanad eva krsnasya
mukta-sangah param vrajet
["My dear King, although Kali-yuga is an ocean of faults, there is still one good quality about this age: Simply by chanting the Hare Krsna maha-mantra, one can become free from material bondage and be promoted to the transcendental kingdom." (SB 12.3.51)]
He quoted all these verses in glorification of the holy name. Indradyumna Swami exclaimed, "Maharaja, you are perfectly quoting all these verses about the holy name, but you can't remember the gayatri mantra?!" Sridhar Swami explained, "The gayatri mantra is just meant to assist us in chanting the holy name. The real thing is chanting the holy name. The gayatri mantra just supports it--helps us to become purified--so we can chant the holy name."
You may have heard how Maharaja arrived in Calcutta. Jayapataka Maharaja had sent his van to pick him up, and Sridhar Swami lay unmoving in Jayapataka Maharaja's bed in the van all the way from the airport to Mayapur. In Mayapur, thousands of devotees came out to receive him with kirtana--sometimes roaring and sometimes sweet.
Now, another result of Maharaja's disease, because his liver wasn't processing different materials in the body, was that his body would fill with liquid (as before). It would become bloated. In Canada, as well as in India, doctors would remove five to seven liters of liquid from him at a time. That was part of his discomfort. Anyway, after the installation of the Panca-tattva, he had a physical setback, maybe because of the exertion and excitement in the ceremony.
The situation looked grave, and in the evening he asked for devotees to come and do kirtana in his room. He didn't know what would happen, and it looked like he was going to leave. Maharaja's servant, Mayapur das, informed the devotees. So devotees came. Senior devotees and disciples alike gathered in Maharaja's room, ready for the worst. As Maharaja lay silently on his bed, they performed kirtana, most of them crying, seeing that the end was near. Somehow a devotee managed to call a doctor, who entered the room and came to Maharaja's bedside. The doctor was serious and grave, and he began to feel around Maharaja's body as Maharaja lay motionless on his bed, his eyes closed.
Maharaja's abdomen was completely bloated from the accumulated liquid. The doctor put his hands on Maharaja's abdomen, squeezing it gently to assess the situation. Then Maharaja slowly opened his eyes, looked in the direction of the doctor, and said, "It's a boy."
Everybody cracked up. Maharaja was so funny, even in the most dire of circumstances. The devotees were going mad. They didn't know whether to laugh or cry. The situation was so critical, yet Maharaja was so funny. Anyway, Maharaja told me that story on the phone--I think he rather liked it.
So, jivo va maro va: a devotee can live or die. Both are the same. Certainly that was true of Sridhar Swami: He could live or die, because if he lived he would serve Krsna here, and if he died he would serve Krsna in the next life.
For Sridhar Swami, life and death were the same (jivo va maro va). Thus, he was truly fearless and jolly. He really had no fear of death. Although he wanted to stay so he could preach, he wasn't afraid of death. He knew he would continue to serve Srila Prabhupada in the next life.
A few days before Gaura Purnima, Indradyumna Swami came to say farewell to Maharaja. At Maharaja's room he met Mayapur das, Maharaja's servant, who told him, "Maharaja is in the shower." From inside, Sridhar Swami overheard the talk and shouted out, "Indie! Is that you, Indie?" He used to call Indradyumna Swami "Indie," short for Indiana Jones, because Indradyumna Maharaja is such an adventurous preacher. (Later Indradyumna Swami remarked what a wonderful experience this was: When someone really loves you and is proud of you, he shows you off to his friends. In this way, Sridhar Maharaja would show off Indradyumna Swami to people who came to his room. He would say, "This is our Indiana Jones, but he is the real thing! This one is the real thing!")
So, Sridhar Maharaja called out, "Indie! Is that you out there?"
"Come on in!"
"But Maharaja, you are in the shower."
"So what? Come on in."
He went in, and there was Maharaja with nothing to cover him but the air (and water from the shower). Sridhar Maharaja said, "Don't worry about it. We are not these bodies!"
Indradyumna Swami was choked up, because he was feeling he would never see Maharaja again. This was it--saying good-bye. So he said, "Maharaja, I have come to say good-bye." Maharaja said, "Don't say good-bye." Indie replied, "I may never see you again in this life." Sridhar Swami responded, "Don't you know that old song?" And he sang: "Happy trails to you, until we meet again." And that was it. That was it.
So I think that is a good conclusion, especially for Indie: "happy trails"--because his trails take him all over the world. Yet all of us, in our own ways, have our own trails and paths in devotional service, and Sridhar Swami wishes that they be happy--until we meet again.
I wanted to phone Maharaja every day, but the way it worked out with the time difference and all the difficulties in just getting through to Mayapur, it averaged about every third day that I would speak to him. The last time I spoke to him, two days before he left, he was having a very good day. The previous day was a bad day, but the night before, they had given him some medication to help him. When I spoke to him that last time, he was having a very good day, and we had one of the best talks I have ever had with anyone in my entire life.
We spoke mainly about the Mayapur project and Srila Prabhupada's mission. It's really something that I'll cherish for my whole life--the experience of it and the lessons in it.
That was Thursday, March 11th. The next day, Friday, we installed beautiful brass deities of Gaura-Nitai in our Santa Barbara ashram. They had come from Vrndavana, originally commissioned by Mother Kirtida for Tamal Krsna Goswami. I felt Their coming was also part of Sridhar Swami's mercy, because he so fervently desired that the glories of the Panca-tattva be spread and that we build the "wonderful temple" for Them in Mayapur. So, two representatives of the Panca-tattva had come, and I felt that was his desire.
Then I told Maharaja, "I don't know if I will be able to phone you again before then, but the Deities have come and we will install them Friday evening, and by your mercy we'll try to serve Them and Their dhama." Now, whenever I look at Their beautiful forms and their appealing faces, I feel we have to do something for Them--we have to build Their wonderful temple--as Sridhar Swami always reminded me.
So, I think this may be Maharaja's main contribution in recent years, at least to me in my service: He impressed upon me--and upon our entire movement--the importance of the Mayapur project, of the "wonderful temple" (adbhuta mandira) that Nityananda Prabhu had desired for the service of Caitanya Mahaprabhu, and that Bhaktivinoda Thakura had envisioned. (One day, when Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakura was chanting japa on the balcony of his house in Godruma-dvipa, he looked across the Jalangi River to Mayapur, and he had a vision of a transcendental city with a magnificent temple rising like a mountain in its midst.) Maharaja's whole life was dedicated to Srila Prabhupada, and I think he felt this was one of Srila Prabhupada's main desires that was left to be fulfilled. And he felt that we had to do it; we had to do it. He felt it would benefit the whole society, and the whole world. He would quote Ambarisa Prabhu, who said, "This will be the tide that will make all the boats rise." So, although Sridhar Maharaja left so many wonderful legacies for us in terms of his personal qualities and activities, I think one legacy that may serve to unite the movement and fulfill one of Srila Prabhupada's main desires is his inspiration to push on the construction of the adbhuta mandira in Mayapur.
When I was a new devotee, maybe less than two years in the movement, I approached Srila Prabhupada one day while he was getting his massage on the veranda of the Calcutta temple: "Srila Prabhupada, I have been thinking about what pleases you most." Srila Prabhupada was so pure he took every word into his heart. He replied, "Yes." I said, "The two things that seem to please you the most are distributing your books and building the big temple in Mayapur." Srila Prabhupada smiled with great appreciation: "Thank you very much."
So, those were Srila Prabhupada's two main strategies for spreading Krsna consciousness, and Sridhar Swami helped him in both. In his early days, Sridhar Swami was instrumental in developing book distribution in North America. And in his later years, he was very involved with the Mayapur project, planning and raising funds for the "wonderful temple." And by Maharaja's mercy, on Gaura Purnima, standing in front of the Panca-tattva Deities in Laguna Beach, I got the inspiration: "Now it's time for Mayapur. Sridhar Swami understood that long ago. Now it's time for you [me] to join the effort, too." And that was important for me in other ways as well--to let go of the past: "Forgive and forget. Now let's all work together for Mayapur, for Sridhar Swami, for Srila Prabhupada, to build the wonderful temple."
Sridhar Swami asked me to speak about my experiences of Srila Prabhupada related to Mayapur. For one, in 1973, Srila Prabhupada came to Calcutta from England--so enthusiastic and excited about Mayapur. Tamal Krishna Goswami had gotten the first land in Mayapur, we had observed the first Gaura Purnima festival there, and now Srila Prabhupada had come with the plans for the first building. There was a detailed discussion, but at the end Srila Prabhupada said, "If you build this temple, then Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakura will personally come and take you all back to Godhead."
Now I think, "That might be my only hope, so I'd better get to work. We'd better build the Mayapur project, because I don't know how else I will ever get back to Godhead."
His Holiness Sridhar Swami has given me a lifetime of work in service to Srila Prabhupada. Although jivo va maro va, to live or die is the same for a devotee--and certainly that was true of Maharaja--my own feelings are mixed. I think, "Now he has left so much service for me, given me so many instructions."
(I think the same about Tamal Krishna Goswami.) "So I must stay and execute his mission." Even though part of me misses them terribly and wants to be with them, mainly I think, "They left me so many instructions. I have so much service to do for them here."
Of course, it all depends on Krsna how long we have to do what they have asked, to do what they would want. Therefore, whatever time we do have left we should use in the best possible way--in Krsna consciousness.
His Holiness Sridhar Swami Maharaja ki jaya! Srila Prabhupada ki jaya! Sri Panca-tattva ki jaya! Nitai-gaura-premanande hari-haribol!
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Three days after Sridhar Maharaja left, while on my daily walk in Santa Barbara, I suddenly began to feel blissful, and I felt Maharaja's presence. Then, I imagined that he gave me two instructions. The first was, "I am still here. Be happy." And the second was, "Just be yourself. Each one of us has his own contribution to make, so just be yourself and make your contribution." And then he left.
After he left, I considered what had happened. Clearly, his two instructions were meant not only for me. They were meant for everyone. And his instructions covered all points. Especially his last statement had said it all: "Just be yourself and make your contribution."
Thank you, Maharaja. We love you.
LOKANATH MAHARAJA: We were together in Bombay. At that time there were only a few of us, about 20 of us, mostly brahmacaris. We had a big land, and the Deities of Sri Sri Radha Rasabihari. Srila Prabhupada used to come to Bombay all the time, since it was his office. Sridhar Prabhu approached Srila Prabhupada for sannyasa, and Srila Prabhupada approved it. Gopal Krsna Prabhu, who was the GBC there, thought that this might be a loss for the temple at that time. When I heard that Prabhupada had approved his request for sannyasa, I also rushed to Prabhupada's quarters with the same request. Prabhupada approved my request also. Prabhupada said that he was going to conduct initiations at Vrindavan soon and so both of us went to Mathura to go to Vrindavan. This was in December 1975. So, Prthu-putra Das from France, Sridhar Das from Canada and Lokanath Das from Maharashtra (India) got sannyasa from Srila Prabhupada in Vrindavan. After we got the initiation, the three of us got together. What would be our new names? What services would we do now? Are we to continue with the same services or do we have any new service? We didn't know, so we approached Srila Prabhupada. Srila Prabhupada said, "Add 'Swami' to your names." There were no change in our services. Prabhupada also preached to us. He quoted the verse man-mana bhava mad-bhakto mad-yaji mam namaskuru, and told us to do these four things. He also told us to not be duplicitous and be honest, and that our preaching would then be effective.
Sridhar Maharaja was expert and an authority in fund-raising, Life Membership. He helped form the BHISMA department in the Bombay temple for this purpose. He was in Mumbai guiding me with the quincentennial celebrations of Lord Caitanya Mahaprabhu. Later he was in the GBC. He was very competent in taking care of guests. He was a very powerful speaker, very knowledgeable, very humorous.
When the news of his having hepatitis reached us, we saw that he was not discouraged at all. When we went to him to inspire him, we ended up being inspired by him. Later, when his liver got cancer, he decided to return to the dhama. The reception that he was awarded by the devotees then was fitting as he had so much affection for his Godbrothers and Godsisters. He was wondering if he would be involved in Panca-tattva installation. He was pouring kalasas on Lord Nityananda. On the day of Gaura-purnima, I did the mangala-arati for Panca-tattva. I noticed that Sridhar Maharaja was sitting and watching. I offered Maharaja a flower from Lord Caitanya's lotus feet.
He departed on the auspicious appearance day of Srivasa Thakura, and
place near Srila Prabhupada. Now he is eternally stationed there.